The Top 3 Clues That Your Girlfriend Is About To Cheat on You
Let’s face it. You’re probably not going to catch your girlfriend cheating on you. However, there are clues that let you know if she is preparing to cheat. In some cases, the clues show up before she has made the decision to be unfaithful. In other words, she is weeks away from cheating, but she doesn’t realize it.
The following are the top 3 signs that she is about to cheat, whether she realizes it or not.
Sign #1 - You Catch Her Lying to You - If you catch her lying to you, then start paying very close attention to everything.
Maybe she is already cheating on you or maybe she’s thinking about it. No doubt you will be hurt to find out that she has lied to you when you thought you could trust her. However, make sure that you keep in mind that if she has lied about one thing, chances are she is lying about other things as well.
Sign #2 - She’s Constantly Defensive - If you find your girlfriend is constantly on the defensive and she thinks you are constantly out to get her and worries even when you ask her questions that are totally innocent, there may be something going on.
You have to be careful, because many defensive women are skilled. They can artfully reframe you as the paranoid guy or the blamer and before you know it, you’re apologizing to her.
Remember if she is close to cheating, it’s probably because you have lost sexual valuable. And because of this, she vulnerable on levels she don’t understand.
Sign #3 - You Rarely Have Sex - More than likely when you first got together the sex life was great; however, if her sex drive is getting sour, then at a minimum you have lost “sexual value”.
When the sex life begins to fade, many guys become suspicious prematurely. In most cases, she is not cheating. A woman doesn’t need to meet a new guy in order to start finding her boyfriend sexually undesirable.
This is concept that most guys don’t get.
However, the longer she remains in the state of “sexual disinterest”, the more likely she is to cheat in a very natural way. And while the guy is busy trying to define things in terms of “right and wrong”, he ends up forgetting that her “sexual brain” craves sex with desirable guys (Guys With Sexual Value).
So according to her “natural urges” she’s single, except she doesn’t realize it. So when she ends up cheating she becomes confused.
Paying attention to these warning signs, gives you the opportunity to make adjustments before anything regretful takes place.
More importantly, you create the habit of constantly evaluating whether or not you are responsible for her recent behavior.
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